You know what really annoys me? People who are non committal. I'm not talking about amorous relationships here, I'm talking about friendship. Like when I say I'll call you, I call you; and if I don't intend to do it, then I don't say I will. But what even annoys me more is the kind of implicit non-committal. You know, I think when you're friends with someone, you have a certain kind of responsibility; i.e. by giving notice now and then of what and how you're doing, and ask how the other person is doing. For me, it's an indirect way of saying: I care for you, even if I don't see you on a daily basis. I don't expect huge declarations of love; just little gestures now and then that make me feel like I matter to someone.
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